venting: part II
okay, tonight was the last straw. in conclusion to the situation yesterday night, that totally ruined my day, it's over. i give up. so i msg this person tonight to see if we could maybe talk things out and as usual i get the superficial one word answers. hmmm. this is interesting because this is exactly what this person was complaining to me about yesterday - how people do it to this person and so on. very hypocritical. so, me - being all fed up and not wanting to take this crap anymore - rather bluntly say how i feel. this is how i said it:
for someone who complained about people not trying yesterday night...maybe you should stop focusing on other people. maybe you don't put in half the effort that other people do. ever thought of that? do you even see how people try? do you even care?
keep in mind that i'm feeling totally frustrated at this point and i honestly meant every single word i said - and if i had to do it all over again, i wouldn't change any words. i share these words because i feel that at the time, bluntness was the only way to get my point across - since my whole 2 hours of talking yesterday night did absolutely nothing to try and get this person to see the other point of view. how does this person respond?
msg #1: yeah i have...look...i'm sorrie i even shared my feelings with you....i'll know better later on...i have to get some sleep cause i'm really tired uh huh. this person really tries to talk. please. i'm not stupid.
msg #2:btw...if you think about it....if u weren't so upset at me...you probably wouldn't even be messaging me. And if we ever came back to Toronto the same time, we probably wouldn't ever talk to each other until the summer.this coming from the person that i called during the beginning of Christmas break - who never called me once. at all. on any occasion. that's fair. please note the sarcasm.
needless to say, i msged this person back - bluntly but at least i said everything that i wanted to say.
and there it is. i tried my best. that's all i have to say. this case is closed.
0 comments:
Post a Comment